Security Questions for Single, Childless People

What is the middle name of the ex-boy/girlfriend whose profile photo you look at from time to time so as to comfort yourself that you made the right choice in ending that relationship?

and

Should you decide that you do want a child, what is the name of your friend or friend’s partner whom you would choose to father/carry that child, in a Big Chill-like scenario?

I would answer these questions publicly but that might compromise a) my online security and b) my already tenuous friendships.